Sex Therapist serving Arlington, VA
LGBTQIA+, ENM/CNM/Polyamory, kink, and sex work affirming
It can feel like intimacy comes easily to everyone else, leaving you with the painful sense that you’re missing out. Maybe you’ve been coping with erectile dysfunction and now you find yourself avoiding intimacy out of fear that you won’t be able to perform. Or perhaps you’re a survivor of sexual trauma and you experience fear, panic, or emotional numbness when you try to be intimate. Maybe you’re in a relationship where everything else feels perfect, but the sexual aspect is leaving you disconnected and unsure of how to move forward.
Tell me if any of these sound familiar:
You feel so disconnected with your partner that intimacy feels more like a chore than a source of joy.
You wish you could enjoy sex, but pelvic pain has led you to avoid intimacy altogether.
You’re ashamed of how often you engage in certain sexual behaviors, but it’s hard to stop.
You’re worried that exploring your kinks or interests might change how your partner sees you.
You feel like you’re letting your partner down because you don’t feel the same level of desire.
It's hard to open up about something so personal, especially when it seems like everyone around you has a perfect sex life. Most of us are taught that we aren’t supposed to talk about sex, so we aren’t equipped to communicate about it when problems arise. I’m here to tell you it’s not just you, and you are deserving of wellness in this part of your life. I’m happy to be able to provide sex therapy to residents of Arlington, VA. Learn more about sex therapy and how it can help you achieve a fulfilling sex life.
Struggling with sexual problems can be a lonely experience.

Take Charge of Your Pleasure with Sex Therapy in Arlington, VA
Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy aimed to resolve or improve issues related to sex or intimacy. There are a wide variety of reasons a person may seek sex therapy, ranging from sexual dysfunction, to identity or orientation issues, to healing from sexual trauma. Sometimes sexual problems are complex and multi-dimensional, which is why it’s essential you have a trusted and competent therapist who you can talk openly with to get to the root cause(s). Whether you’re coping with erectile dysfunction, struggling with low libido, or looking to reclaim a fulfilling sex life after surviving sexual trauma, I’m here to provide Arlington, VA residents shame-free sex therapy tailored to your unique needs.
It’s common for people to worry about awkwardness when they’re considering talking to a professional about their sexual problems, but don’t let the fear of awkwardness keep you stuck. We’ll get through it together! Sexuality is a beneficial dimension of being human, and you deserve fulfillment in this part of your life. I’m excited to extend sex therapy services to residents of Arlington, VA. Learn more about my approach here to see if we might be a good fit.
Sex therapy can help clients in Arlington, VA with…
Rebuilding confidence while navigating erectile dysfunction
Safely integrating kink into your intimate life
Healing from purity culture and embracing sexuality without shame
Reclaiming a healthy intimate relationship after surviving sexual trauma
Developing strategies to overcome pelvic pain and reconnect with pleasure
Why choose an online sex therapist?
Online therapy, or teletherapy, is designed to meet you where you are, literally. Although it does not take place in a traditional therapy office, you can still access professional therapeutic services from the privacy and comfort of your home. Online therapy removes geographical barriers and allows you to expand your search throughout the state for the perfect fit. This is especially helpful for sexual minorities who may have a difficult time finding a knowledgeable therapist. Online therapy means you don’t have to resort to identity concealment. Instead, you can connect with a therapist who is kink-aware, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and sex-worker allied.
If you’re an Arlington, VA resident looking for an affirming sex therapist, you’re in the right place. I’m thrilled to be able to offer sex therapy to individuals, couples, and polycules in Arlington and throughout Northern Virginia.
Other common issues for sex therapy:
Sexual pain or dysfunction
Erectile difficulties
Premature or delayed ejaculation
Body image issues
Sexual dissatisfaction
Support in safely exploring kink or BDSM
Overcoming intimacy and abandonment issues
Navigating consensual non-monogamy
Sexual anxiety
Difficulty relaxing or enjoying sex
Adjusting to new phases of life (marriage, children, illness, loss)
Mismatched sexual desire or sexual interests
Orgasm difficulties
Sexual orientation and identity concerns
Gender dysphoria interfering with pleasure
How to begin sex therapy in Arlington, VA
1
Reach out
Email me to schedule a 20 minute phone consultation to talk about your goals and see if we feel like a good fit.
My practice is completely virtual, allowing me the flexibility to work with clients anywhere in the state of Virginia.
2
Get to work
We will meet weekly or biweekly to work on the emotional, psychological, and relational factors that are influencing your sexual wellbeing.
3
See change
I’ll help you start making small shifts to dismantle sexual shame, develop your sense of confidence, and reconnect with the most intimate parts of your life.
Learn more about my approach here.
Ready to get started?